10 Critical Mistakes Men Make

1. Dullness, predictability and unoriginality of your conversation topics, messages, pick-up lines etc. When you meet a woman you ask her the same set of question “how are you? What do you do?”, you talk to her about the weather, how gas prices went up… Ummm… Booooooring.

2. You act just like every other guy. Women want to see personality and individuality. They want to be pleasantly surprised. They don’t need “just another guy” whose thoughts and behaviour they can pretty much read, and whose next move is as obvious as his intentions.

3. Speaking of intentions… another critical mistake men make is seeing a woman just as a sex object. When a woman feels that the only thing that comes from you is lust, she will not hesitate to put an end to it. Women need care, feelings and emotions.

4. You are in the fast lane. Men like to be in the fast lane, but women don’t like to be driven that fast. Slow down! She will appreciate that. Moreover, when you slow down you get her hungry.

5. You are not projecting your interest through non-verbal behaviour. Women are touchy-feely… if you never touch her �" she will see you as friend. Do not overdo it!

6. You are not confident. Women can smell it. They will doubt you as much as you doubt yourself.

7. You are too confident. Women can smell it too. This time, they wouldn’t doubt that you are a prick, who thinks too much of himself.

8. You put full control for the relationship and the leadership on weak shoulders of a woman. At the end of the day a woman needs a strong shoulder to rely on, she prefers to be lead by you, not to lead you.

9. By the way, leading does not equal controlling. Just as you wouldn’t like someone trying to control your life, a woman wouldn’t want you to control hers.

10. You don’t understand how she feels. Well, perhaps, it could be difficult if a woman says one thing, feel the other, and acts in some third way, but you gotta do it. Most men don’t even try.

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